Rowling has this thing about minorities. She wants them to get rights… but on her terms, in nice gentle ways that don’t upset the social order.
It's not "We're here, we're queer, sorry for the inconvenience. We'll try to temper our existence to fit a mold that'll be more palatable for you to accept us." It's "We're here, we're queer, get used to it." So get used to it.
Since I did a post about polyamory because I'm polyamorous, I think it's reasonable for me to touch on this subject because I'm kinky. Also I'm a masochist so infer what you will.
Love is love and deserves respect or at least tolerance, even if it doesn't look the way you expect it to.
"How much more? I like to take everything," Thriti whispered in her ear, then grabbed her by her hips and pulled her back sharply against her. "Everything," Amanda gasped. "You can take everything. Anything you want."