It's not "We're here, we're queer, sorry for the inconvenience. We'll try to temper our existence to fit a mold that'll be more palatable for you to accept us." It's "We're here, we're queer, get used to it." So get used to it.
Kink at Pride
Does Kink Belong at Pride?
Since I did a post about polyamory because I'm polyamorous, I think it's reasonable for me to touch on this subject because I'm kinky. Also I'm a masochist so infer what you will.