Since I think I'm rather good at writing sex, and I have seen people ask for tips (just the tips, just to see how it feels) on how to write sex, I thought I'd share my personal guidelines. Please note this is just how I write and you are free to do your own thing! It works for me and might work for you, or might not. You do you.
Writing
When Cis-Hetero Women Write M/M Romance
The topic of cis-straight women writing M/M romance blew up recently, and I had some thoughts I wanted to share on the subject. While I'm not a queer man and would not presume to speak for that community, I do know the experience of being in a minority that gets excluded from content about themselves, … Continue reading When Cis-Hetero Women Write M/M Romance
Now on YouTube!
Just posting to make an announcement - I'm now doing videos on YouTube! It'll be a lot like the content on my blog, but more dynamic. Hope you enjoy! https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=sT80322qJz8&t=5s https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=dZmlPK_-9oA&t=82s
Writing Jewish Characters
Antisemitism, like any other form of bigotry, flourishes in the demonization of the "other". When all you see is a harmful stereotype, it's easier to forget that someone is human.
Writers are Dominants, Readers are Submissives
I am a submissive, through and through. But when I write, I become the Dominant. This isn’t because I write from the perspective of a Dominant character (most of the time) or even that I wish to be a Dominant in real life. I don’t. All erotica I’ve written is from the perspective of submissive … Continue reading Writers are Dominants, Readers are Submissives